At the end of the day, what do I want for myself?
Am I happy?
Do I enjoy the life I'm living?
Am I acting authentically?
Am I sacrificing anything for anyone that is harmful to me?
What do I care about? What makes me feel fulfilled
Am I living in the present moment?
Am I hung up on my mistakes and decisions in the past? Am I living in anticipation of what's to come in the future?
Am I letting my mind and thoughts get the best of me?
By what standard do I measure my self worth?
What do I value?
"Our values determine the metrics by which we measure ourselves and everyone else. If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what you value and/or how you measure failure/success."
Manson, Mark. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck (p. 79). Harper. Kindle Edition.